Stop telling me to have a baby.

I don’t want a baby right now. Yes, I can change my mind in the future. Or maybe I won’t. There’s always the option to adopt anyway.

My family, friends and even select (cough, older) colleagues at work who have had babies are constantly telling me to have a baby. I am married. In a long term, loving relationship. We’re pretty easygoing. And we also love our free time. Especially our ability to both be out of the flat at the same time without having to worry about a pet, let alone a child. I think the garden is what my husband worries about the most. He’s really grown to love…